Sweet counsel: 12.29.08

December 30, 2008

This is the first in what may become a weekly series of reminders and wandering thoughts about what is going on at FPC Kosciusko. It will be available at fpckosciusko.org and at sweetdropper.com. A print edition will be available for non-computer folks. If it helps you, let me know via blog comment or in person. The aim is to improve communication, comment on church events, and help everyone stay better connected with each other and more focused on our mission.

REMIND

Christmas decorations will be coming down soon, and 2009 is right upon us. We’re having a New Year’s Eve soup supper and service Wednesday, beginning at 5:15 pm.  Please bring your favorite soup. FPC will provide drinks and dessert. At 6 pm we will meet in the sanctuary for a service of remembrance of the Lord’s mercies in 2008 and pursuit of his blessings in 2009. This service has quickly become a favorite to many. Don’t miss it.

Officer nominations are open during January. A healthy church requires outstanding, God-given, committed and qualified leaders to serve as deacons and elders. This year we are asking members to return to the church office a simple nomination form for each nominee. Forms are found where you pick up church bulletins; they include a list of qualifications and duties. Please note that you must obtain the signature of the nominee indicating his acceptance of the nomination. NOTE: If you are nominated and are unsure about your qualifications or sense of calling, talk with me about that. It is good to serve as an elder or a deacon. But it is not easy work. No one should rush into the process without reflection; but neither should anyone run from or take lightly the church’s recognition of gifts and graces.

COMMENT

What a full Lord’s Day we just had! Well-attended Morning Worship, the reception for Ramon and Snooks Jackson in honor of their 60th wedding anniversary, the lovely memorial service for Kate Hughes in the old church building, and Evening Worship. I know some were worn out from the afternoon events and did not come to Evening Worship. If you missed it, you missed some hearty singing and a solid sermon on John 4:1-26 from Joe on the centrality of worship in all that the Church is and does.

Speaking of the memorial service, Preston and Ann Hughes and their children put together a lovely time of remembrance, hymn-singing and Scripture reading in memory of Kate. There was a great deal of laughter, especially when Kathryn revealed some of the secrets of Kate’s disdain for cooking! Mrs. Catherine Carr-Esters gave a touching account of how much Kate meant to her. I wish it had been recorded. Four months have passed since Kate has left our presence, and I still expect her bright and attentive face to be there to my right as I lead worship and preach.

Preachers like compliments, but need encouragement. Kate was an encourager. When greeting me after worship, she would often thank me for the sermon and then specify exactly what was instructive or meaningful to her about it. Her one-sentence encouragement was usually more direct and pointed than the actual point I had made during the sermon. More than once I remember thinking, “Wow, I wish I had said it that way. We would have finished earlier too!” That’s one of many things that I will miss about Kate, who was a great mother in Israel.

This Sunday during Morning Worship Joe Holland will give the congregation a report on the work he is undertaking in Culpeper, Virginia. Next week in this space I’ll outline for you the transition plan that Session has approved regarding Joe Holland’s launch of his church planting efforts and the final months of his ministerial labors among us.

PLAN

Jan. 4    Communion service, pm
Jan. 10  GriefShare training for leaders
Jan. 15    GriefShare begins, 6:30 pm
Jan. 28    MIC-WIC night, 6 pm
Jan. 30    Mid-South Men’s Rally at First, Jackson
Feb. 3    FPC hosts Mississippi Valley Presbytery

MEANDER

I hope that the daily Bible reading plans that were included in last Sunday’s bulletin will be put to use. If you need any accountability, i.e., someone to ask you how you are keeping up and progressing, go ahead and ask someone. Ask me if you want. Above all, read the Scriptures!

Our friends at Reformation21 have assembled a plan for daily reading through John Calvin’s Institutes of the Christian Religion during the year 2009, which marks the 500th anniversary of Calvin’s birth. Talk to one of the FPC ministers or log on to http://www.reformation21.org/calvin/ for more info.

Last week I heard someone comment that the best way to ensure that winter passes by quickly is to take out a loan that is due in the spring.

John Piper e-books for free

December 29, 2008

Desiring God has made 46 English titles (and a few foreign language titles) by John Piper available for free pdf download here. This is a tremendous resource, especially if your book budget is small.

Make her wastes rejoice

December 29, 2008

As 2008 passes, The Sweet Dropper hopes that, whatever “bane and blessing, pain and pleasure” has come your way, Christ Jesus is more precious to you now than he was a year ago. Thanks to the digging and blogging of Tullian Tchividjian, here’s a glorious hymn by 19th-century Scotsman Horatius Bonar:

The Church has waited long,
Her absent Lord to see,
And still in loneliness she waits,
A friendless stranger she.
Age after age has gone,
Sun after sun has set,
And still in weeds of widowhood,
She weeps a mourner yet.

Saint after saint on earth
Has lived, and loved, and died;
And as they left us one by one,
We laid them side by side;
We laid them down to sleep,
But not in hope forlorn;
We laid them but to ripen there,
Till the last glorious morn.

The serpent’s brood increase,
The powers of hell grow bold,
The conflict thickens, faith is low,
And love is waxing cold.
How long, O Lord our God,
Holy, and true, and good,
Wilt Thou not judge Thy suffering Church,
Her sighs, and tears, and blood?

We long to hear Thy voice,
To see Thee face to face,
To share Thy crown and glory then,
As now we share Thy grace.
Should not the loving bride
Her absent bridegroom mourn?
Should she not wear the signs of grief
Until her Lord return?

The whole creation groans,
And waits to hear that voice
That shall her comeliness restore,
And make her wastes rejoice.
Come, Lord, and wipe away
The curse, the sin, the stain,
And make this blighted world of ours
Thine own fair world again.

This American life

December 24, 2008

My work is about speaking the gospel clearly to people, loving people, being an agent of the grace of God in the mess of people’s lives. My business is people business; I need to understand people. One great and entertaining help in this endeavor is the weekly podcast of This American Life, produced by Chicago Public Radio, and available on more than 500 public radio stations. The podcast is free. Each episode consists of personal essays organized around a theme. Some of the contributors are funny, some profound and some infuriating. You never know what is coming next.

If you decide to give the podcast a try, let me recommend that you download the episode from 5 December entitled “Heretics.” The entire episode is devoted to the story of Reverend Carlton Pearson, a Pentecostal bishop in Tulsa, Oklahoma, who planted a church in the early 1980′s that drew crowds of 5,000 each Sunday–and saw it all come crashing down when he stopped believing in and preaching the doctrine of hell.

Advent of humility

December 24, 2008

What a great Christmas gift Tim Keller and Christianity Today have given us in his article on humility in the December issue. I think this is worth reading and re-reading to the point of memorization. Read it here.

Two kings

December 23, 2008

Can I give you a ‘once upon a time’ story? Once upon a time, a little more than two thousand years ago, in a land the Romans called Judea, two kings were alive at the same time and in the same place. One king was about seventy years old; the other king was an infant. The big king was evil; the little king was pure. The big king was rich and powerful; the little king was poor. The big king lived in a palace staffed with servants; the little king was born in a stable. The little king’s mother was a young peasant girl from an obscure village, and his adoptive father was a carpenter.

Of course, you know the names of the two kings. The big king’s name was Herod. He was known as “Herod the Great.” He was a master builder, starting an ambitious expansion of the Temple in Jerusalem. A large portion of a supporting platform of that Temple structure, now known as the Wailing Wall, is still standing today.

But there are a couple things you ought to know about King Herod. He was a puppet-king. Judea was under Roman control and occupation. The Roman emperor allowed Herod to ‘rule’ in Palestine. Herod was appointed governor of Galilee in 40 BC, and later that year the Roman senate declared him “King of Judea.” He was a king, but a king who would not dare displease Rome.

In Judea Herod was not considered to be so “great.” In fact, most conservative, observant Jews of his day would say that he was not even Jewish! His ancestors were Edomites and not Jews—and his grandfather’s generation had embraced Judaism because there were a lot of swords were pointed at them. He could never be recognized as a true king of the Jews. He was not of the tribe of Judah. He was not related to David.

No, I’m not writing a special for the History Channel. What I want you to understand is the insecure position Herod was in during his reign. In Herod’s life, reality didn’t quite match up with outward appearances. That is something worth remembering.

One day Herod receives some unusual visitors from far away—“Magi from the East,” as Matthew describes them. [Nowhere is there an indication of how many there were!] Magi were most likely Persian [think Iranian] priests of Zoroaster, who were into the interpretation dreams and the study of astrology. The Magi came to Herod because they were following a heavenly object [“a star at its rising/in the east”]. Their search led them to Judea. “We have come to worship him—he who has been born king of the Jews.”

No wonder Herod was greatly troubled. He didn’t like the idea of another king in his realm, especially a true king whose birth was signaled by signs in the sky! He consults the chief priests and scribes about Messiah. [By the way, I wonder why the chief priests didn’t go along with the Magi—perhaps indifference?] He tried to fool the wise men. He met with them secretly and asked them how to find this newborn king. He lied to them. His fear and obsession with keeping his kingdom intact turn him into a liar. When his plan fails after the Magi scoot back to Persia without reporting to him, Herod becomes enraged, and you know what happens next. Herod becomes a mass murderer, ordering the slaughter of all male children in the area of Bethlehem under two years of age. But God warned Joseph in a dream, and the young family fled to Egypt. In a short time Herod the Great died, and the new king came back from Egypt.

The big king died and now is remembered as a little king—pathetic, paranoid, murderous. The little king grew up. He is Jesus, and now he is King of all Kings and Lord of all Lords. His Kingdom is an everlasting Kingdom.

A part of the Christmas story is the story of a king who missed the real king. His little, insecure, pathetic kingdom mattered more than the Kingdom which God was bringing into the world. Really it’s an old, old story. The little kingdom wars with the big Kingdom, and the kingdom of this world wars against the Kingdom of heaven. The kingdom of man wars against the Kingdom of God.

This war wages behind every human intention, decision, thought, word, desire, and action. Everything any of us does is done in pursuit of one of these two kingdoms. We were created, as Paul Tripp likes to say, for ‘big Kingdom’ living. But sin twists and perverts our allegiances and causes us to become Herods—fiercely dedicated to our little kingdoms, believing our kingdom is as good as it gets, and blind to transcendent, eternal glories of the big Kingdom—the Kingdom of heaven.

Think about Herod again. Herod’s greatest achievement was a religious one. He expanded the Temple. But even that was all about advancing and securing his little kingdom. This is how we get ourselves in trouble without realizing it. Most of us don’t wake up in the morning thinking in Kingdom terms. And without realizing it, we can do religious things (go to church, help others, study the Bible), all in the hope that God will ensure the success of our little kingdom.

We end up living for earth-bound treasures: success, someone’s affection, power and control, a certain lifestyle, parenting successful children, a trouble-free marriage, pleasure, or stuff. Let me ask you this: What makes your day a ‘good day’? What tends to make you happy and satisfied with life? If we watched a video of you during 2008, what treasure would we conclude that you are seeking?

We end up defining life in terms of our needs and anxieties. Herod felt stuck between keeping Rome happy and proving himself to skeptical Jews. Maybe you feel stuck in a similar way. You will never be able to control all the things that need to be controlled in order for you to guarantee that all your needs will be met and that your kingdom will come and your will be done.

Living for your little kingdom will shape the way you respond to everything God has placed in your life. Living for your little kingdom turns life into an endless, fruitless search for earth-bound treasure and an endless, fruitless focus on yourself. The Bible has a word for this way of living: sin!

We know what we like and the people we want to be with. We know the kind of house we’d like to own and the car we want to drive. We know how we want people in our family to respond to us. Without even recognizing it, we quickly fall into a ‘my desire, my will, my way’ lifestyle, driven by the cravings of our hearts. Like Herod, the more threatened my kingdom becomes, the more likely I am to manipulate, lie, become outraged, and destroy. But the promises of the Bible are an invitation to be a part of a bigger and better Kingdom—the Kingdom of God.

“It seems then,” said Tyrian, smiling himself, “that the stable seen from within and the stable seen from without are two different places.”
“Yes,” said the Lord Digory. “Its inside is bigger than its outside.”
“Yes,” said Queen Lucy. “In our world too, a stable once had something inside it that was bigger than our whole world.” [C.S. Lewis, The Last Battle]

The big Kingdom really is big! Its purposes span all of history and spread to all of creation and speak to all kinds of people. After all, a group of Iranian Zoroastrian priest-astrologers are the first seekers! The big Kingdom of God and my little kingdom cannot co-exist peacefully. The Kingdom of God cannot be squeezed or chopped down to fit into the constricted space of your little kingdom. And that is a good thing: that is why we weekly call you all to worship. Worship is opening ourselves up to the grandeur of the Kingdom of God—acknowledging one greater than we are, whose Kingdom is greater and much, much better than ours—the Lord God is his name.

I want this Christmas to be a time when you reconsider Jesus the Messiah and ponder what it is to worship him and what it is to seek first his Kingdom and his righteousness—to welcome a new way of living, a way of living that recognizes a loving heavenly Father and his unwavering commitment to provide all his children need to live lives committed to his Kingdom. The little king born in Bethlehem came to tear down your kingdom and expose its emptiness. He gave his life to buy us, to bear our sins, and to welcome us into his Kingdom. By his grace may everyone hear be able to say with the Iranians, “We have come to worship him.”

Here are 3 recent blog entries worth your time:

Carl Trueman at Ref21 with a critique of the recent Newsweek treatment of the Bible and gay marriage.

John Mark Reynolds at The Scriptorium, same as above.

Tullian Tchividjian at On Earth as it is in Heaven, on why Jesus the Trailblazer (Gk. archegos) has anything to say to a teenager who worries that he’ll never be big enough to be a great athlete.

Here’s a Sweet Dropper Christmas tradition [which, being interpreted, means, 'I posted this each of the last two years and can't come up with anything better.']. Enjoy the leftovers.

It’s Friday. There must be another Christmas party to attend–I hosted one last night. There must be another little gift to buy. Who’s going to be so favoured as to receive one of my signature fruitcakes? C.S. Lewis wrote a short essay for the December 1957 edition of the publication, Twentieth Century. Under the heading, ‘What Christmas Means to Me,’ Lewis launches a scathing attack on the ‘commercial racket’ that overwhelms the season–NOT because it isn’t ‘religious,’ but because it drains our energies and undermines the merry-making, and hospitality that ought to characterize the season:

The interchange of presents was a very small ingredient in the older English festivity. Mr. Pickwick took a cod with him to Dingley Dell; the reformed Scrooge ordered a turkey for his clerk; lovers sent love gifts; toys and fruit were given to children. But the idea that not only all friends but even all acquaintances should give one another presents, or at least send one another cards, is quite modern and has been forced upon us by the shopkeepers. Neither of these circumstances is in itself a reason for condemning it. I condemn it on the following grounds.

1. It gives on the whole much more pain than pleasure. You have only to stay over Christmas with a family who seriously try to ‘keep’ it [in the commercial sense] in order to see that the thing is a nightmare. Long before December 25th everyone is worn out—physically worn out by weeks of daily struggle in overcrowded shops, mentally worn out by the effort to remember all the right recipients and to think out suitable gifts for them. They are in no trim for merry-making; much less (if they should want to) to take part in a religious act. They look far more as if there had been a long illness in the house.

2. Most of it is involuntary. The modern rule is that anyone can force you to give him a present by sending you a quite unprovoked present of his own. It is almost a blackmail. Who has not heard the wail of despair, and indeed of resentment, when, at the last moment, just as everyone hoped that the nuisance was over for one more year, the unwanted gift from Mrs. Busy (whom we hardly remember) flops unwelcomed through the letter-box, and back to the dreadful shops one of us has to go?

3. Things are given as presents which no mortal ever bought for himself—gaudy and useless gadgets, ‘novelties’ because no one was ever fool enough to make their like before. Have we really no better use for materials and for human skill and time than to spend them on all this rubbish?

4. The nuisance. For after all, during the racket we still have all our ordinary and necessary shopping to do, and the racket trebles the labour of it. We are told that the whole dreary business must go on because it is good for trade. It is in fact merely one annual symptom of that lunatic condition of our country, and indeed of the world, in which everyone lives by persuading everyone else to buy things. I don’t know the way out. But can it really be my duty to buy and receive masses of junk every winter just to help the shopkeepers? If the worst comes to the worst I’d sooner give them money for nothing and write it off as a charity. For nothing? Why, better for nothing than for a nuisance.

From C.S. Lewis, “What Christmas Means to Me,” in God in the Dock: Essays on Theology and Ethics (Grand Rapids: Eerdmans, 1994), 304-305.

Nota bene: 10 December 2008

December 10, 2008

Here are some posts from other blogs worth your time:

Philip Ryken with A Cry from India

R.C. Sproul on making the best use of your time.

Andy Crouch on the perils and pleasures of fermentation.

Two weeks ago I had the privilege of proclaiming Christ at the funeral service of a friend in Macon, Mississippi. Drew Blackwell, Sr. and his family are precious to me and mine, and his unexpected death at the age of 53 brought us back together to weep and to remind each other that Jesus is the Resurrection and the Life. Drew was a good friend and a worthy deacon in the church there.

This week I sat down to write his wife a note, and I thought about a letter of sympathy in The Life and Letters of James Henley Thornwell, which I had read in 1993. Some echo of that letter rattled around my brain, and I was able to find it rather quickly. For a painfully brief bio of Thornwell, click here.

March 9, 1859

My dear Mrs. Bishop: I have just this moment received the painful intelligence of your husband’s death. Little did I dream, when I left him on Thursday morning, and when he so confidently expected to visit us in May, that my eyes should never more behold his venerated form…I need not say to you how deeply I sympathize with you in your sad bereavement. You have reason to weep. You have lost one who has left few equals on earth. He was a man of God; a man whose heart was in heaven, while his body freely mingled among the sons of men. He was a man of prayer, full of the Holy Ghost, full of zeal in his Master’s cause, and full of charity ot his fellow men. None knew him without loving him; and the more they knew, the more they loved him. I always esteemed his intimacy and friendship as among the richest blessings of my life.

Your loss is great. But in the midst of your sorrow you have much to be thankful for. You should be thankful for the many years you were privileged to enjoy the society, guidance, confidence, and love of such a man. It was a rich boon, and a boon conferred upon very few of your sex. You should be thankful for the precious memories which you are permitted to cherish of his conversation, his charities, and his zeal. You should bless God for the noble legacy he has left you and your children, in a pure example, a treasury of prayers, and a hearty consecration of you all to God. Depend upon it, you have been highly favoured; and you must not forget that, if your affliction is unusually severe, it is only because your blessings have pre-eminently great.

You know, too, that you shall see him again. Those who sleep in Jesus will God bring with Him. He is not dead, but sleepeth; and the Saviour, at the proper time will assuredly wake him; and you shall then see that his death, at this precise juncture, was the for the glory of God. In the meanwhile you are not a widow; for the Lord Jehovah promises to be your husband. Trust in Him, make His promises you portion, and, above all things murmur not against His will. His ways may be in the dark; but infinite wisdom, and goodness, and love, regulate all the dispensations of His providence to His children. What He does, you may not know now, but you shall know hereafter; and when you come to understand it, you will cordially approve it. Trust, therefore, in Him, and commit yourself and your children into His hands. Could your husband speak to you from the skies, this is what he would say to you…

The Lord bless you and keep you, and be the Guardian, Friend, and everlasting portion of you and yours.

Most truly your friend,

J. H. Thornwell

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